Odd Hours

and neck, puncturing your eardrum. When he finally got you out of your mother, you weren’t breathing.”
    His grandmother took him from the doctor, rushed him to a sink, and held him under cold running water until he gasped for air.
    “The doctor would likely have certified you as born dead. You entered the world fighting, sir, and you never really stopped.”
    I glanced at my watch. I had a lot to achieve in five minutes, but Mr. Sinatra’s fate and my life depended on getting it done.
    Because his parents had worked and because his mother had been a committeewoman for the Democratic party, with many outside interests, young Frank was a latchkey kid before the term was coined. From the age of six, he often made his own dinner—and sometimes had to scavenge for it when his mom had been too busy to go food shopping.
    Lonely, almost desperately so at times, he drifted to the homes of other family members and friends. People said he was the quietest kid they knew, content to sit in a corner and listen to the adults.
    “In your teens, your mother was in your life more. Always she was demanding. She set high standards, had a dominant personality.”
    She belittled his hope of a singing career, and was not entirely convinced even after he became the most famous singer in the world.
    “But, sir, you’re not like Elvis. You aren’t lingering here because you’re reluctant to face your mother in the next world.”
    A combative expression hardened his features, as if, ghost or not, he would punch me for ever thinking that his beloved mother might have been the reason he lingered in this world.
    “Your mom could be exasperating, contentious, opinionated—but loving. Eventually you realized that your ability to stand up for yourself arose from the need to hold your own in arguments with her.”
    Mr. Sinatra glanced at the door and made a hurry-up gesture.
    “Sir, if I’m going to die here tonight, at least I’m going to help you move on from this world before I leave it myself.”
    That was indeed my motive for this short session of straight talk. But I also had another.
    Although Dolly’s steel will led to contention between them, Mr. Sinatra honored her without fail and took good care of her. Unlike Elvis’s mother, Dolly lived a long life. The Chairman was sixty-one when she died, and he had no reason to regret anything between them.
    He had adored his gentle father, Marty, who died eight years before Dolly passed. If anything, his deep love for his dad should have made him rush away into the next life.
    “No disrespect, sir, but you could sometimes be a bastard, hot-headed and even mean. But I’ve read enough about you to know those faults were more than balanced by loyalty and generosity.”
    In sickness and in hard times, friends received his devotion, not just significant money sent unsolicited but also daily calls for weeks, to give emotional support. He was capable of reaching out to a deserving stranger and changing a life with a generous gift.
    He never mentioned these kindnesses and was embarrassed when his friends spoke of what he had done. Many of these stories surfaced after his death; the number of them is both inspiring and humbling.
    “Whatever waits beyond this world, sir, is nothing you need to fear. But you fear it, and I think I know why.”
    The suggestion that he feared anything whatsoever annoyed him.
    Acutely aware of how little time remained before Shackett would return, I said, “Almost died at birth. Lived in a bad neighborhood, they called you a wop. Walking home from grade school, you had to fight. Always had to struggle for what you got. But, sir, you got it all—fortune, fame, acclaim, more than any entertainer in history before you. And now what keeps you in this world is pride .”
    My statement compounded Mr. Sinatra’s annoyance. With one cocked eyebrow and a gesture, he seemed to say So what’s wrong with pride?
    “Nothing is wrong with pride based on accomplishment, and your life was packed full of accomplishments. But justifiable pride can sometimes mutate into arrogance.”
    Mouth tight, he stared at me. But then he nodded. He knew that in life he had sometimes been guilty of arrogance.
    “I’m not talking about then. I mean now. You don’t want to move on to the next world because you’re afraid you won’t be special over there, that you’ll just be equal to everyone else.”
    Although he resisted moving on, he wanted to make the journey, as do all of the