Odd Thomas

and joys, my doubts and hopes, my miseries and anxieties were mine to explore or resolve without her counsel or sympathy. We spoke only of those things that did not disturb her or make her feel obliged to offer guidance.
        For sixteen years we shared a house as though we lived not in the same world but in parallel dimensions that rarely intersected. The chief characteristics of my childhood were an aching loneliness and the daily struggle to avoid a bleakness of spirit that unrelieved loneliness can foment.
        On those grim occasions when events had forced our parallel worlds to intersect in crises that my mother could not tolerate and from which she could not easily withdraw, she reliably resorted to the same instrument of control. The gun. The terror of those dark encounters and the subsequent guilt that racked me made loneliness preferable to any contact that distressed her.
        Now, pressing thumb and forefinger tight together to stop the bleeding, I heard the twang of the spring on the screen door.
        I couldn't bear to turn and look at her. The old ritual would play out soon enough.
        Behind me, she said, "Just go."
        Gazing into the complexity of shadows cast by the oaks, to the bright rose garden beyond, I said, "I can't. Not this time."
        I checked my watch - 11:32. My tension could not have wound any tighter, minute by minute, if this had been a bomb clock on my wrist.
        Her voice had grown flat and strained under the weight of the burden that I'd placed upon her, the burden of simple human kindness and caring, which she could not carry. "I won't put up with this."
        "I know. But there's something… I'm not sure what… something you can do to help me."
        She sat beside me at the head of the porch steps. She held the pistol in both hands, aimed for the moment at the oak-shaded yard.
        She engaged in no fakery. The pistol was loaded.
        "I won't live this way," she said. "I won't. I can't. People always wanting things, sucking away my blood. All of you - wanting, wanting, greedy, insatiable. Your need… it's like a suit of iron to me, the weight, like being buried alive."
        Not in years - perhaps never - had I pressed her as hard as I did on that fateful Wednesday: "The crazy thing is, Mother, after more than twenty years of this crap, down at the bottom of my heart, where it ought to be the darkest, I think there's still this spark of love for you. It may be pity, I'm not sure, but it hurts enough to be love."
        She doesn't want love from me or anyone. She doesn't have it to give in return. She doesn't believe in love. She is afraid to believe in it and the demands that come with it. She wants only undemanding congeniality, only relationships that require less than lip service to be sustained. Her perfect world has a population of one, and if she does not love herself, she has at least the tenderest affection for herself and craves her own company when she must be with others.
        My uncertain declaration of love inspired her to turn the gun upon herself. She pressed the muzzle against her throat, angling it slightly toward her chin, the better to blow out her brains.
        With hard words and cold indifference, she can turn away anyone she chooses, but sometimes those weapons have not been sufficiently effective in our turbulent relationship. Even though she doesn't feel it, she recognizes the existence of a special bond between mother and child, and she knows that sometimes it won't be broken by any but the cruelest measures.
        "You want to pull the trigger for me?" she asked.
        As I always do, I looked away. As if I had inhaled the shade of the oaks along with the air, as if my lungs passed it into my blood, I felt a cold shadow arise in the chambers of my heart.
        As she always does when I avert my eyes, she said, "Look at me, look at me, or I'll gut-shoot myself and die slow and screaming right here in front of you."
        Sickened, trembling, I gave her the attention that she wanted.
        "You might as well pull the trigger yourself, you little shit. It's no different than making me pull it."
        I couldn't count - and didn't care to remember - how often I had heard this challenge before.
        My mother is insane. Psychologists might use an array of more specific and less judgmental terms, but in the Dictionary of Odd, her behavior is the definition of