Slammed

wipe away smudged tears off of the paper.
     

7.
     
    "You can’t be like me
    But be happy that you can’t
    I see pain but I don’t feel it
    I am like the old Tin Man.”
    -The Avett Brothers, Tin Man
     

 
     
    Chapter Seven
     
     
     
    According to Elizabeth Kubler Ross, there are five stages of grief a person passes through after the death of a loved one: Denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance.
     
    I took a psychology class during the last semester of my junior year when we lived in Texas. We were discussing stage four when the principal walked into the room, pale as a ghost.
     
    "Layken, can I see you in the hallway please?"
     
    Principal Bass was a pleasant man. Plump in the belly, plump in the hands, plump in places you didn't know could be plump. It was an unusually cold spring day in Texas, but you wouldn't know it from the rings of sweat underneath his arms. He was the type of principal that hung out in his office rather than the halls. He never went looking for trouble, just waited for it to come to him. So why was he here?
     
    I had a sinking feeling deep in the pit of my stomach as I stood up and walked as slow as I could to the classroom door. He wouldn't make eye contact with me. I remember I looked right at him and his eyes darted to the floor. He felt sorry for me. But why?
     
    When I walked out into the hallway my mother was standing there, mascara streaked down her cheeks. The look in her eyes told me why she was there. Why she was there, and my father wasn't.
     
    "How?" I remember crying. She threw her arms around me and started to collapse to the floor. Rather than hold her up, I simply melted with her. That day we experienced our first stage of grief in the hallway floor of my High School: Denial.
     
    ***
     
    Gavin is preparing to perform his poetry. He's standing in front of the class, his paper shaking between his fingers as he clears his throat to read from it.
     
    I wonder, as I ignore Gavin's presence and focus on Will, do the five stages of grief only apply to the death of a loved one? Could it not also apply to the death of an aspect of your life? If it does, then I'm definitely smack dab in the center of stage two: Anger.
     
    "What's it called, Gavin?" Will asks. He's sitting at his desk, writing notes into his pad as students perform. It pisses me off-the way he's being so attentive, focused on everything except me. His ability to make me feel like this huge invisible void pisses me off. The way he pauses to chew on the tip of his pen pisses me off. Just last night, those same lips that are wrapped around the tip of his ugly red pen were making their way up my neck.
     
    I push the thought of his kiss out of my mind as quickly as it crept in. I don't know how long it will take, but I'm determined to break from this hold he has on me.
     
    "Um, I didn't really give it a title," Gavin responds. He's standing at the front of the classroom, second to last person to perform. "I guess you can call it Pre-Proposal ?"
     
    "Pre-Proposal, go ahead then," Will states in a teacher-ish voice that also pisses me off.
     
    "Eh-hem," Gavin clears his throat. His hands start trembling more as he begins to read.
     
     
     
    One million, fifty one thousand and two hundred minutes.
     
    That's approximately how many minutes I've loved you,
     
    It's how many minutes I've thought about you,
     
    How many minutes I've worried about you,
     
    How many minutes I've thanked God for you,
     
    How many minutes I've thanked every deity in the Universe for you.
     
    One million
     
    Fifty one thousand
     
    And
     
    Two
     
    Hundred
     
    Minutes…
     
     
     
    One million, fifty one thousand and two hundred times.
     
    It's how many times you've made me smile,
     
    How many times you’ve made me dream,
     
    How many times you’ve made me believe,
     
    How many times you’ve made me discover,
     
    How many times you’ve made me adore,
     
    How many times you’ve made me cherish,
     
    My life.
     
     
     
    (Gavin walks toward the back of the room where Eddie is sitting. He bends down on one knee in front of her as he reads the last line of his poem.)
     
     
     
    And exactly one million, fifty one thousand and two hundred minutes from now , I'm going to propose to you, and ask that you share all the rest of the minutes of your life with me.
     
     
     
    Eddie is beaming as she leans down and hugs him. The classroom is divided as the boys groan and the girls swoon. I simply squirm