The Trauma of Everyday Life

Times
, March 21, 2009.
6 . Ashva·ghosha,
Life of the Buddha,
trans. Patrick Olivelle (New York: New York University Press, 2008), p. 73.
7 . Bromberg,
Standing in the Spaces
, p. 6.
8 . Philip M. Bromberg,
Awakening the Dreamer
(Mahwah, NJ: Analytic Press, 2006), p. 33.
9 .
Ibid.
10 .
Ibid.,
p. 7.
11 . Ashva·ghosha,
Life of the Buddha
, p. 41.
12 . D. W. Winnicott, “Primitive Emotional Development” (1945), in
Collected Papers: Through Paediatrics to Psycho-Analysis
(New York: Basic Books, 1958), p. 154.
13 . Ashva·ghosha,
Life of the Buddha
, p. 11.
14 . D. W. Winnicott, “
The Newborn and His Mother”
(1964)
,
in
Babies and Their Mothers
(Reading, MA: Addison-Wesley, 1988), pp. 30–31.
15 . D. W. Winnicott, “Postscript: D.W.W. on D.W.W.” (1967), in
Psychoanalytic Explorations
(Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press, 1989), p. 580.
16 .
Ibid.
17 . T
he Minor Anthologies of the Pali Canon: Part II, Verses of Uplift (Udana),
translated by F. L. Woodward (London: Pali Text Society, 1948), p. 57.
    Chapter Six: Curiosity

1 . Michael Eigen,
Eigen in Seoul: Volume One: Madness and Murder
(London: Karnac, 2010), p. 5.
2 .
Ibid.
3 .
Ibid.,
p. 9.
    Chapter Seven: Going Forth

1 . Bhikkhu,
The Life of the Buddha: According to the Pali Canon
(Kandy, Sri Lanka: Buddhist Publication Society, 1972/1992), p. 48.
2 .
Ibid
.
3 .
Ibid
., p. 49.
4 . Johan Barendregt, “Phobias and Related Fears,” trans. Kevin Cook, chapter 13 of
De Zielenmarkt, Over Psychotherapie in Alle Ernst (The Soul-Market, Psychotherapy in All Seriousness)
(Boom: Meppel, 1982), p. 5.
5 . Ibid., p. 8.
6 . D. W. Winnicott, “Additional Note on Psycho-Somatic Disorder,” in
Psycho-Analytic Explorations
(Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press, 1989), p. 116.
7 .
Ibid.
, pp. 116–17.
8 .
Ibid.
9 . Michael Eigen,
Eigen in Seoul: Volume One: Madness and Murder
(London: Karnac, 2010), p. 29.
10 . D. W. Winnicott,
Playing and Reality
(London and New York: Routledge, 1971), p. 84.
11 . Roberto Calasso,
Ka: Stories of the Mind and Gods of India
(New York: Vintage, 1998), p. 280.
12 . Robert A. F. Thurman,
Essential Tibetan Buddhism
(New York: HarperCollins, 1996), p. 70.
13 .,
Life of the Buddha,
pp. 17–180.
14 . Winnicott,
Playing and Reality
, p. 86.
15 . Karen Armstrong,
Buddha
(London: Penguin, 2001), p. 66.
16 .
Ibid
.
17 .
The Voice of the Buddha
:
The Beauty of Compassion
Volume I, translated by Gwendolyn Bays. (Berkeley, CA: Dharma, 1983), p. 204.
18 .,
Life of the Buddha
, p. 21.
19 . Sherry Turkle,
“
The Flight from Conversation,”
New York Times,
April 21, 2012.
20 .,
Life of the Buddha
, p. 21.
21 .
Ibid
.
22 . John S. Strong,
The Buddha: A Short Biography
(Oxford: Oneworld, 2001), p. 68.
23 . Armstrong,
Buddha
, p. 73.
24 . Winnicott,
Playing and Reality
, p. 86.
    Chapter Eight: Feelings Matter

1 . Richard Gombrich,
What the Buddha Thought
(London: Equinox, 2009), p. 62.
2 .
Ibid
., p. 11.
3 .,
: The Direct Path to Realization
(Cambridge: Windhorse, 2003), p. 164.
4 . D. W. Winnicott,
Babies and Their Mothers
(Reading, MA: Addison-Wesley, 1986), p. 86.
5 . D. W. Winnicott, “Communicating and Not Communicating Leading to a Study of Certain Opposites,” in
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment
(New York: International Universities Press, 1965), p. 186.
6 . Peter Fonagy,
Attachment Theory and Psychoanalysis
(New York: Other Press, 2001), pp. 170–71.
    Chapter Nine: Implicit Memory

1 . Robert Stolorow,
Trauma and Human Existence: Autobiographical, Psychoanalytic, and Philosophical Reflections
(New York: Routledge, 2007), p. 10.
2 .
Ibid.,
p. 20.
3 .
Ibid.
4 . Boston Change Process Study Group, “Forms of Relational Meaning: Issues in the Relations Between the Implicit and Reflective-Verbal Domains,”
Psychoanalytic Dialogues
18 (2008): 125–48.
5 .
Ibid.,
p. 128
.
6 . Philip M. Bromberg,
Standing in the Spaces
(Hillsdale, NJ: Analytic Press, 1998), p. 16.
7 . D. W. Winnicott,
Playing and Reality
(London and New York: Routledge, 1971), p. 47.
8 .
Ibid.
9 .
Ibid
., p. 81.
10 .
Ibid.
, p. 82.
11 .
Ibid
., p. 71.
12 .
Ibid
., p. 65.
13 .
Ibid
., pp. 82–83.
14 . Karlen Lyons-Ruth, “The Interface Between Attachment and Intersubjectivity: Perspective from the Longitudinal Study of Disorganized Attachment,”
Psychoanalytic Inquiry
26, no. 4 (2006): 612.
15 . D. W. Winnicott, “Fear of Breakdown,” in
Psycho-Analytic Explorations
(Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press, 1989), pp. 90–91.
16 .
Ibid
., p.