The Trauma of Everyday Life

92.
    Chapter Ten: Dreams of the Buddha

1 . Serinity Young,
Dreaming in the Lotus
(Boston: Wisdom, 1999), p. 25.
2 . Bhikkhu,
The Life of the Buddha: According to the Pali Canon
(
Kandy, Sri Lanka: Buddhist Publication Society, 1972/1992), p. 22.
3 . Boston Change Process Study Group, “Forms of Relational Meaning: Issues in the Relations Between the Implicit and Reflective-Verbal Domains,”
Psychoanalytic Dialogues
18 (2008): 125–48.
4 . Karlen Lyons-Ruth, “The Interface Between Attachment and Intersubjectivity: Perspective from the Longitudinal Study of Disorganized Attachment,”
Psychoanalytic Inquiry
26, no. 4 (2006): 613.
5 .
Ibid.,
p. 602.
6 .
Ibid.,
p. 604.
7 . Michael Eigen,
Faith and Transformation
(
Eigen in Seoul, Vol. 2)
(London: Karnac, 2011), p. 20.
8 . Bonnie Clearwater, ed.,
West Coast Duchamp
(Miami Beach, FL: Grassfield, 1991), p. 107.
9 . Philip M. Bromberg,
Awakening the Dreamer
(Mahwah, NJ: Analytic Press, 2006), p. 120.
10 . Lyons-Ruth, “Interface Between Attachment and Intersubjectivity,” p. 607.
11 .
Ibid.
12 .
Ibid.,
p. 608.
13 . Jack Kornfield,
A Path with Heart
(New York: Bantam, 1993), p. 28.
14 .
Ibid.
15 .
Ibid.,
p. 29
.
16 . Jeremy Safran, ed.,
Psychoanalysis and Buddhism: An Unfolding Dialogue
(Boston: Wisdom, 2003), p. 1.
17 . D. W. Winnicott,
Playing and Reality
(London and New York: Routledge, 1971), p. 92.
    Chapter Eleven: Reflections of Mind

1 . Jack Kornfield, ed.,
The Buddha Is Still Teaching: Contemporary Buddhist Wisdom
(Boston & London: Shambhala, 2010), p. 76 (extract entitled “Who is Bothering Whom?” quoting Ajahn Chah).
2 .,
: The Direct Path to Realization
(Cambridge: Windhorse, 2003), p. 3
3 . John S. Strong,
The Buddha: A Short Biography
(Oxford: Oneworld, 2001), p. 70.
4 . Stephen Batchelor,
Living with the Devil
(New York: Riverhead, 2004), p. 21.
5 . Strong,
The Buddha
, p. 71.
6 . Batchelor,
Living with the Devil,
p. 19.
7 .
Ibid
., p. 18.
8 .
Ibid.,
p. 19.
9 . Karen Armstrong,
Buddha
(New York: Penguin, 2001), pp. 90–91.
10 . Miranda Shaw,
Buddhist Goddesses of India
(Princeton, NJ: Princeton University Press, 2006), p. 21.
11 . Bhikkhu,
The Life of the Buddha: According to the Pali Canon
(Kandy, Sri Lanka: Buddhist Publication Society, 1972/1992), p. 27.
12 .
The Voice of the Buddha
,
The Beauty of Compassion
, Volume II, translated by Gwendolyn Bays, (Berkeley: Dharma, 1983), p. 482.
13 . Shaw,
Buddhist Goddesses of India,
p. 20.
14 .
Ibid
., p. 25.
15 . Strong,
The Buddha
, p. 72.
16 . Batchelor,
Living with the Devil,
p. 6
.
17 . Robert Stolorow,
Trauma and Human Existence: Autobiographical, Psychoanalytic, and
Philosophical Reflections
(New York: Routledge, 2007), p. 20.
18 .
Ibid.
19 .
Ibid.
, p. 16.
20 . Sherab Chödzin Kohn,
A Life of the Buddha
(Boston: Shambhala, 2009), pp. 32–33.
21 . Batchelor,
Living with the Devil,
p. 10.
22 . Lucien Stryk,
World of the Buddha
(New York: Grove Weidenfeld, 1968), p. 271.
23 . Robert Thurman,
Essential Tibetan Buddhism
(New York: HarperSanFrancisco, 1995), p. 99.
    Chapter Twelve: A Relational Home

1 . Robert Stolorow,
Trauma and Human Existence: Autobiographical, Psychoanalytic, and Philosophical Reflections
(New York, Routledge, 2007), p .10.
2 . Personal communication; See Joseph LeDoux,
The Emotional Brain: The Mysterious Underpinnings of Emotional Life
(New York: Simon & Schuster, 1996). See also Joseph LeDoux, Lizabeth Romanski, and Andrew Xagoraris, “Indelibility of Subcortical Emotional Memories,”
Journal of Cognitive Neuroscience,
vol. 1 (July 1989): 238–43.
3 . Adam Phillips,
Missing Out: In Praise of the Unlived Life (
London: Hamish Hamilton, 2012), p. 35.
4 .
Ibid.
5 . Helen Davey, “Wounded but Resilient: The Impact of Trauma,”
Psychology Today
, October 30, 2011.
6 .
Ibid.
7 . Robert Thurman,
Essential Tibetan Buddhism
(San Francisco: Harper San Francisco, 1995), pp. 209–10.
8 . Storolowe,
Trauma and Human Existence,
p. 16.
9 .
The Blue Cliff Record,
translated by Thomas Cleary and J.C. Cleary (Boston and London: Shambhala, 2005), p. 176.
10 . Stephen Batchelor,
Living with the Devil
(New York: Riverhead, 2004), p. 55.
11 .
Ibid
., p. 574.
12 . Adam Phillips,
Winnicott
(Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press, 1988), p. 29.

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